Hi, my name is Mike Hellman and I’ve been living with HIV for 40 years now. In 1985 I went to a very old Health Department clinic to get a test for HIV. Three weeks later I was called in and told “you tested positive, put your life in order, and you’ll be dead in 18-24 months.”
Medical personnel were only seeing AIDS patients, they didn’t fully understand an early HIV diagnosis. I fortunately lived on the cusp of new advances in treatment but they often left me with debilitating conditions due to side effects of the newer medications. Aging with HIV has been a struggle but I am determined to live on doing the best I can. In HIV, I started taking over 12 pills a day and now I receive 2 shots every 2 months. I have gained so much freedom.
For over a decade, I told my story as part of a guest lecture on HIV 101 in schools, colleges, and universities. Since then I have published my living memoir telling my story using the stages of grief as a reference. “A Journey of Acceptance” has allowed me to continue sharing my story and expanding on advocating for others.
I have just been named the new recipient for the 2025 Kerry Stoner Lifetime Achievement Award in HIV/AIDS Advocacy.