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How do you deal with negative comments on social media?

Putting yourself out there with your advocacy can be a vulnerable place, and it doesn't come without criticism. How do you choose to reply to negative or nasty comments on your social media?

  1. I ignore those types of posts. I keep my circle tight and negativity outside of it. If it's simply disgusting I will hide the comment.

    1. Hi, I’m Craig Michaud. I came across your profile on SocialHealthNetwork and thought you seemed like someone I’d genuinely enjoy getting to know. I hope you don’t mind me saying hello. How are you doing?

  2. I don't generally get negative comments. Once, on YouTube, I shared a video of my medical shipment detailing a typical shipment and what's in it, with quantity and products. One commenter said, "maybe it would be better if dead."
    This comment upset me at first. I truly was heartbroken 💔 😥. Then, my brother snapped back at their comment. He wasn't rude but tried to explain that at least I'm not wallowing in sorrow. Of course the negative person said something like whatever helps you believe it.
    I then thanked my brother and told the person that just because my life is different and difficult, does not mean it's not meaningful.

    1. thank you! 💜.

    2. thank you 💜.

  3. This happened recently for A Day with HIV, but it has happened before.
    I replied, "I'm going to pray that you become a safe space for someone someday."
    And I moved on. I've been called every bad word... in 2 languages!
    I'm celebrating 25 years in advocacy; it still hurts a bit.
    I get stronger from the hurt. 💪🏽From a video post for A Day With HIV

    1. (((Hugs000 . I hope that he felt your blessing and that he let it in. And I thank you for that blessing as well - may it's positive effects return to bless you three-fold. - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)

    2. Hi, I’m Craig Michaud. I came across your profile on SocialHealthNetwork and thought you seemed like someone I’d genuinely enjoy getting to know. I hope you don’t mind me saying hello. How are you doing?

  4. The best approach is to stay calm and avoid reacting emotionally. Respond politely to genuine concerns, ignore obvious trolling, and use constructive feedback to improve. For wellness-focused businesses, maintaining a positive, transparent, and supportive community is especially important.

    1. I haven't had negativity regarding my advocacy but ive been back n forth with others on social media. Its absolutely ridiculous but when im caught up in the emotional insanity I cant think straight. I know how to unsubscribe, delete, block or whatever to respect myself and my peace.

    2. , excellent skills to embrace <3 - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)

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